Januari 30, 2013

ways of achieving our wishes

1. pray
prayer means asking God that his desire to be in the grant, by prayer and begged him to grant your request
2. sure
kalu trust and believe in God and God almighty everything, so nothing is impossible for him and trust / believe that God exists
3. visualization
ie membayangkakan if God grant all your prayers during this and all you want to be true, then it will add an upbeat attitude in your life.
4. create the ingredients
create material after 4 this is done is create materials. Make that we live in some place with objects that we have set so wanted something accomplished.
5. fell happiness
feel happiness in this case, happiness is very important to us as happy as possible. then we will be happy to get something we want.

Habits Of Highly Effective

Habits Of Highly Effective habits is routine of someone. 
The following 7 habits of highly effective SUMMARY OF THE SEVEN HABITS 

 1: Be ProactivChange starts from within, and highly effective people make the decision to improve their lives through the things that they can influence rather than by simply reacting to external forces. 

 2: Begin with the End in Mind Develop a principle-centered personal mission statement. Extend the mission statement into long-term goals based on personal principles.

 3: Put First Things First Spend time doing what fits into your personal mission, observing the proper balance between production and building production capacity. Identify the key roles that you take on in life, and make time for each of them. 

 4: Think Win/Win Seek agreements and relationships that are mutually beneficial. In cases where a "win/win" deal cannot be achieved, accept the fact that agreeing to make "no deal" may be the best alternative. In developing an organizational culture, be sure to reward win/win behavior among employees and avoid inadvertantly rewarding win/lose behavior.

 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood First seek to understand the other person, and only then try to be understood. Stephen Covey presents this habit as the most important principle of interpersonal relations. Effective listening is not simply echoing what the other person has said through the lens of one's own experience. Rather, it is putting oneself in the perspective of the other person, listening empathically for both feeling and meaning.

 6: Synergize Through trustful communication, find ways to leverage individual differences to create a whole that is greater than the sum of the parts. Through mutual trust and understanding, one often can solve conflicts and find a better solution than would have been obtained through either person's own solution.

 7: Sharpen the Saw Take time out from production to build production capacity through personal renewal of the physical, mental, social/emotional, and spiritual dimensions. Maintain a balance among these dimensions.